If You Got a Relative Search and Engagement Letter

You've Got Mail. What's Next?

  • Fill out the  online form in your preferred language: English, Español (Spanish), or русский (Russian).
  • Call or email the Relative Search and Engagement Specialist listed in your letter to learn about ways you can support and be involved. The Relative Search and Engagement Specialists are also listed on the right side of this page. 

Why You Received this Letter 

You received this letter because a child or youth in your family may need support.
We are reaching out to see if you:

  • Would like to be considered for placement of the child or youth
  • Want to stay connected
  • Can help support the child or youth
  • Know other family members or close family friends who should be contacted

You get to decide how much you want to be involved.

Why We Reach Out to Relatives

When a child or youth cannot stay at home, Public Law 110-351: Fostering Connections to Success, requires us to contact family members.  Staying connected to family can help children and youth feel safe, supported, and connected to who they are.  We continue reaching out and working with relatives throughout the case.

Who is the Relative Search and Engagement Team? 

DCYF staff who help connect children and youth with their relatives and kin.

Our goal is to increase the number of children and youth placed with relatives and kin or stay connected to kin.

What do we mean by “Relative Search and Engagement”?

DCYF staff:

  •  Find relatives
  • Reach out to them
  • Talk with them about ways to support the child or youth

Who's Considered a Relative in Washington State?

Washington State law (RCW 74.15.020) explains who is considered a ‘relative.’ A relative is someone related to a child by family. This can include, but is not limited to:

  • Siblings (including adoptive and stepfamily members)
  • Aunts and uncles
  • Cousins
  • Grandparents
  • Great aunts and uncles
  • Great and Great-great grandparents

How Can Relatives Support a Child or Youth Placed in State Care?

Relatives are often the best resource for children and youth. Research and  DCYF policy both supports helping children and youth stay connect to family.
You can choose what feels right for you.  Even small support can make a big difference. DCYF will keep reaching out to family and working to build connections throughout the case. Relative search and engagement will continue through the life of the case. 
Under federal and state law, relatives may take part in the planning, placement, and well-being of the child. Examples of other involvement include: 

  • Providing placement now or in the future
  • Helping with rides to visits, courts, or services 
  • Providing a short break for foster parents/relatives caring for the child or youth
  • Sharing family history, including health, education, or behavior needs
  • Helping support visits (family time)  between the parents and child or youth
  • Celebrating birthdays, holidays, and other important moments
  • Identifying other relatives or kin