Family, Friend and Neighbor (FNN) child care is provided by people you already know. This can include grandparents, aunts, uncles, older brothers or sisters, friends, neighbors, or other trusted adults.
Across Washington and the United States, FFN care is the most common type of child care for babies, toddlers, and before and after school for school-age kids.
FFN providers are not licensed by the state. However, some can get paid through child care subsidies if they meet certain rules. In Washington, FFN providers must follow WAC 110-16.
Why Families Choose FFN Child Care
- They already have love and trust with the caregiver.
- The caregiver shares their language, culture, and values.
- It works well for children with special health or behavior needs.
- It offers flexible hours for parents who work nights, weekends, or holidays.
Most FFN caregivers see themselves as part of the family, not professional child care providers. They enjoy spending time with children and helping parents. Sometimes the parent and children live with the FFN caregiver. In many cultures, FFN care is seen as families and communities working together to raise kids.
Help Paying for FFN Care
Some families can get financial help (a subsidy) to pay their FFN caregiver. If approved, the caregiver can be paid by the state.
The Department of Children, Youth, and Families (DCYF) gathers the necessary information and decides if a family qualifies and approves the caregiver.
How to Apply
Families can apply for a subsidy in three ways:
- Call DCYF Customer Service at 1‑844‑626‑8687
- Apply online through Washington Connection
- Visit in person at your local Community Services Office
You can also find instructions online for creating a Washington Connection account.
